One whole year.
Do you remember when you were really young and a year would feel like an eternity? Now it's scary how fast 365 days goes.
So this time a year ago, I was on my very first holiday with Chris (we went to Vietnam). You know what that first vacation together is like, it's kind of make or break. It was an incredible trip and now happily, one year on, I'm sitting in our hotel room on another holiday together.
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| New Years Eve 2012, Vietnam (yes - that's me in a backpack... first time I'd ever wore one & haven't done so since) |
I always seem to spend these last few days of the year a little nostalgic for what has been, but equally excited for what I want to make the next year.
Notice I said what I want to make the next year? I truly believe that - it's up to us to create the best year of our lives. So in thinking about 2013, I've set my challenge for the next few days to dream BIG. And I encourage you to do the same!
I often find New Years resolutions are over before they've even begun. Last year one of mine was "I will not eat any fries for a whole year". Fast forward to 1:30pm January 1st 2012... I'd just ordered some fries for lunch.
So instead of resolutions, this year I am creating goals - and focusing on positive ones (rather than not doing something, I am going to do something). I still have much thinking and dreaming to do in the next couple of days, but I do know three things. I want to...
1. Run my first half-marathon. I'd like to point out, I am not a natural runner by any stretch of the imagination. I've been doing a little training each morning before work for the last three months, so I want to keep going and kick things things up a notch.
2. Create a true community, genuine friendships and great content with my blog. I want to do BIG things with this! Since starting 8 weeks ago, I've loved every minute and continue to be amazed at all the wonderful people I meet. I relish the creativity blogging allows and am so excited to continue building something I'm passionate about and love doing.
3. Be a tourist in my own town. You know when you visit another city, you always think "Wow! There's so many fun things to do!" When you live somewhere, I think it's easy to just go to the same places and do the same things. So next year, I want to do or try things I've never done before. It could be simple, like drinking a cocktail in a honey pot (there's a bar that does this and I've always wanted to go), through to something totally adventurous!
I must confess, I often don't share things like this... because I do them for me, I usually set them as secret goals, so I know I've achieved them and there isn't any outside pressure! But I guess you'll all keep me focused, if I haven't told you about a honey pot cocktail by June - please send a firm reminder!!
Have you thought about any goals for 2013 yet? I'd love you to comment and share them - we can keep each other on track ;)
I've added this to Tell Me About It Tuesday and 2013 Resolutions Link-Up.

















































Hi Lauren!
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Lovely blog!! I was just thinking about setting my new years resolutions and I love the idea of setting goals instead!
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Love this! Blogging is so much fun and I'm thankful to have made so many genuine friendships throughout my blogging journey thus far. It really is such a fun experience.
ReplyDeleteAnd yes, I know what you mean about being a tourist in your own town! I was just thinking about that the other day too!
♥ Duckie.
Awesome job starting your half marathon training already! It's perfect to have a base before you start a training plan. For my first half I used the Hal Higdon training plan and felt very prepared for the race! I would highly recommend that. I love the idea of being a tourist in your own town too. I need to do that more as well!
ReplyDeleteOMG!!!!
ReplyDeleteI have the same goals for the new year! As a matter of fact, I'm actually training for my first half-marathon which is at the end of January. I've kept putting it off for the last 2 years, and I finally got the push I needed to sign up!
I always feel there's something new I have to see about Miami. And lucky for me I always end up finding something new or finding a new fun spot to hang out with friends, or with hubby alone.
Bloggy life? well, I'm making buddies here and there too, just like you :)
Thanks so much for visiting my little side of the world too!!!
Can't wait to read some more about you!
xoxo
Andie's Traveling Pants
I hope you will achieve your goals. I have few goals for 2013 too.
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I love your blog! And all of your goals are great! Good luck,!
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my goodness Lauren what a wonderful set of goals and such a sweet way to start what is sure to be a beautiful new year.
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xo,
Nicole
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I think those are wonderful goals for this year!
ReplyDeleteAnd I wholeheartedly agree about MAKING it a great year. That is absolutely the truth!
Thanks for sharing your goals. I too have some running goals. LOL. Like, actually do it! Again. I was running 5Ks on my own for about a month last year, and stopped in November due to the weather being poooooop. However, I have a gym I can go to, so I need to.
Happy New Year
ReplyDeleteHmm... I added a whole comment on here and it did not show up! hahhaa~~ Anyway, love your goals for 2013! Esp, the half marathon. Im not a runner either, but I definitely wanted to accomplish it! Find one with a good cause, it will help with motivation :D
ReplyDeleteI ran the Run for Chocolate race... afterwards they give you ghiradelli chocolate fondue ... yumm that was pure motivation for me!
Oh, Lauren, can you please put our button on your post? Thank you!!
I love these Lauren!!! these are amazing and I think I need to add them to my list!
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year!!
I love your goal to be a tourist in your own town! That is such a cute idea!
ReplyDeleteI hope we can keep each other on track!
Love your blog! You post such refreshing ideas, I can't wait to read more!! I love how you said you wanted to be a tourist in your own town. I always look up cool museums and hidden romantic locations for my boyfriend and I to visit.
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